This is just the way life is. You can't have everything you want. Be grateful you have what you do have. Consider yourself lucky you haven't been surprised with a pregancy. Consider yourself lucky that you have the luxury of deciding when to have children. Now you know why guys keep secrets. Suck it up. What's wrong with WalMart? Everyone has to sacrifice. You have to give up something in order to get something better in return. It'll make your wife happy. No, it's not perfect. It'll never be perfect. You'll always want more. There will always be a reason to wait a little bit longer. Everyone else manages, you will too. Be grateful that your wife doesn't have to work. Golf is fun. Think of how cute they'll be. You can still take pictures. Once you have them, you'll realize that nothing else matters. Dallas is a great place to raise children. I like Starbucks. So you'll move closer to work, big deal. It sounds like a good job to me. You can always move if you want to, just find another job. I know! Get a transfer! You should find a church. Now you can trick-or-treat again! A lot of fathers don't get to see their children much. Someone has to pay the bills. You're making this harder than it is. I didn't have my grandparents growing up either. Jess will take care of the kids.