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November, 2007:

Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 07:37 Is awake and wouldn’t dare go shopping this morning. Coffee anyone? #
  • 08:49 My dinner date for tonight had to cancel. Plans? #
  • 12:21 played wii all morning. about to shower. then go pick up the camcorder we bought from BestBuy online yesterday. We are so SMRT. #
  • 15:03 Heading home after bad circuit city experience and lunch. But, we have a camcorder now. #
  • 18:16 Having dinner at manny’s with friends. #

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Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 07:57 Awake. Late. Grr. Getting up. Showering. Grocery store. Cleaning / cooking. T-day! #
  • 08:04 Jess: "don’t do that. I’ll fuck you up. " #
  • 09:55 Grocery shopping done. $90 for two really nice meals for 4. Not bad at all. #
  • 17:36 Dinner was mostly a success. Meat was a bit dry. I picked a bad cut. #

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Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 04:52 awake. usual morning routine. need coffee. #
  • 06:09 still need coffee #
  • 07:02 mmmm. coffee. #
  • 17:08 Skipping out of work early. Going grocery shopping. Then making bread. Then more work. Tmrw sunrise photos. Come along? #
  • 17:23 Cancel that. Going to dinner, then rock band. Groc shopping tmrw morning. Still doing sunrise photos though. #
  • 20:27 Rock band on. #
  • 23:51 Heading home #
  • 00:17 home now. sleepy. won’t be up much longer. photos and groceries in the morning. then T-Day at my place with my sister and brother-in-law. #

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you’ve got potintail and it looks GREAT!

seen on a photography forum I read from time to time:

Person A: I am seeing a lot of stuff that has way more potintail, next time you do a set show me your best and ill crituqie.Im on the other side so i know what ppl want. and no im not trying to sound hot headed. I want to help.

Person B: what’s a potintail? Sounds like a hairstyle.

Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 06:16 awake. today will be a long day. #
  • 09:25 The entire world must have imploded. 6 large issues on my plate and I’m only 1.5 hours in. And it’s a holiday week with no one around. #
  • 10:18 For the love of god please make this call end. Everyone, right now, pick up your phones. Maybe that’ll be enuf to stop all comm nationwide. #
  • 10:31 THANK YOU! The call leader’s phone just dropped him and he was gone for two minutes. Two minutes of precious silence. Do it again!!! #
  • 15:06 I have sent over 100 individual pieces of email in the past hour. I don’t mean 100 recipients. 100 emails. This is not an exaggeration. #
  • 18:59 Longest day at work ever. Finally over. More tomorrow though. Heading to class. More Thomas. #
  • 21:54 Home. Watching TV with Jess for a bit. Then some reading and photo editing. #
  • 23:02 Eh. I’d rather go to bed with my wife and edit photos and read in the morning. G’nite. #

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between self-worth and self-abuse

It is not too far a walk between forgiveness and acceptance over into the realm of stupidity, hopelessness, and self-abuse. Just as well, the distance is minuscule between that of assertiveness and self-worth and that of outright anger and selfishness.  I have trouble walking these two lines and, as a result, have destroyed many relationships that would have otherwise been fruitful.

I firmly believe that rules exist solely for someone else to show they need to be broken. However, I think that, for me, the best way to find these thin lines is to guess at a simple set of rules. Then, over time, they can be adjusted until they fit most situations. Once established I can decide case-by-case when these rules should be broken.

As I work to define these limits I hope that those who care about me will be sensitive to that and help me by pointing out when they think I’ve gone too far in one direction or another, either with them or with a mutual friend.

In the end I hope this will being me to be more patient and more sensitive, yet less likely to be walked on or taken advantage of. Like I said, it’s a very fine line.

one month

There’s one month left until our baby is due. One month, if I’m lucky. Four weekends. Eight teeny, tiny, almost useless, days. And three of those already have plans booked on them.

Before now, I wanted nothing more than for her to be here right now. I didn’t want to wait any longer. But, as the time draws nearer and nearer and I realize how many of the things I wanted to accomplish before she came into this world have gone undone I find myself hoping more and more that she’ll be late. Really late. Don’t tell Jess. She’s quite ready to be done already and might not be too happy that my wishes at this point are in direct opposition to hers.

I’m just trying to breathe deep and prioritize. If I don’t get the office the way I want it and my Mother-In-Law (who arrives on the 22nd) has to see it in shambles, then that’s just how it’ll have to be. If the garage is still covered in paint supplies and sawdust then so be it.

So, I’ve boiled it all down to three important things:

  1. Finish Painting the Crib / Buy a Crib
  2. Clean the Baby’s Room
  3. Clean Jess’ Car

If time permits, I’ll throw in “Decorate the Baby’s Room” for good measure.

Outside of those things and basic human maintenance, I’m considering myself utterly unavailable on weekends and most weekdays between now and then. Unless, of course, you happen to be good with a paintbrush or a sanding block.

Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 06:44 Wow. I over slept. Time to get the day started. #
  • 11:38 I actually logged into MySpace and didn’t throw up. I think that makes me the a minion of the devil some how. #
  • 13:29 Just canceled my photoshoot for tonight. Too much going on to make the kind of shoot she’s looking for. Maybe I can resched later this week. #
  • 16:09 Installing Anti-Virus software. Yes, I’ve waited this long. #
  • 17:17 I believe my work day is slowly coming to a close. Just a little me time to relax and then dinner and chores. #
  • 19:01 I have a hot date tonight. #
  • 19:14 I guess I should shower now before my date. #
  • 22:33 Great date. Much needed. Going to bed early. Busy day tomorrow. #

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Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 09:40 Going to Sunday service. Lunch afterwards around 12:30. Email/call if you’d like to join. #
  • 17:33 Had lunck with friends. Then guitar hero. Then dominoes. Now heading to our reverend’s house. #
  • 21:34 Home. Great weekend! But I also realize that I have a lot of thinking to do about relationships in my life. #
  • 22:50 Bedtime #

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Yesterday’s Tweets

  • 08:32 Awake. Decided not to set an alarm at all last night and then laid in bed for over an hour once I did wake up. Nice. #
  • 10:28 Washing the truck. #
  • 12:56 Truck clean. Now considering lunch. #
  • 17:46 Going to a pajama, popcorn, ice cream get together. Should be very fun. #
  • 22:50 home now. checking email. editing photos. etc. #

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