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September, 2008:

yesterday, today, and tomorrow

I enjoy having a packed schedule. It makes the down time more enjoyable and keeps me from wallowing in too much madness. Unfortunately, a packed schedule often comes with the stress of those things that are packing the schedule as well as the guilt that comes with the fact that many of those things pull me away from my wife and daughter.

Last Friday was nice. I wouldn’t have minded a few people coming over to goof off. But, as it was, it was just Jess and the baby and I, and that was just right. We watching the debate, discussed the heights of the candidates in comparison to those in the Koreas, and bragged about our own bracelets.

Saturday was supposed to be filled with family and parties and friends. As it turned out, Jess had an infection in her hand that was working up her arm. It was too serious to ignore so we called a emergency clinic who told us to go to the ER. 6 hours later, they did nothing for her but write a prescription. Later that night we got to spend some time with a dear friend of mine who is moving to Florida. She will be sorely missed. It was nice to spend some time letting loose.

Sunday my Dad and my brother and I met Johnny and Justin out in the sticks of DFW to work on the scaffolding for the Arc for our camp at Myschievia this year. (If you’re not going to Myschievia… WHY NOT?!) I can’t say it was “fun”, but I left with some work being done, a trailer full of parts, a very good plan, some sore muscles, and a tight sunburn. We headed back to my dad’s for dinner. Then goofed off a bit before meeting Johnny and Skwid for coffee and then heading home.

Tonight we’re working on the top part of the Arc. We’re all gathering at Justin’s place.

Tomorrow is a prep day: house work, cleaning, and such.

Then, Wednesday, I pick up my mom from the airport. She’s staying for a week. Weee!

DITL: a few candid portraits

Last Friday was a DITL day. I started out with good intentions but, in the end, only really took two photos worth looking at. So, here they are.

Daniel – 11032 days old
Daniel - 11032 days old

Celeste – 269 days old
Celeste - 269 days old

There’s another DITL day tomorrow (Saturday, Sep 27th). I hope I can take a few more photos and do one like I did back in January.

Gentle News Live is back?!

It’s been nearly two years since Gentle News Live was rockin’ the interwebs. So that means we’ve got that much in store for the comeback episode.

Tune your web browsers in this Monday at 8:31pm Central Time for hot, live, Gentle News action. This time around, not only will we be broadcasting LIVE!, but we’ll be doing it with video. So be sure to check out our UStream Channel: GentleNewsLive @UStream.

Finally, if you’ve never heard Gentle News Live before, or even if you had and you’re just looking for a laugh, check out these clips.

Gentle News Live – LARGE!

Gentle News Live – Rodney King

Gentle News Live – I Can Hear You (TMBG Cover with Additions)

break away

Dear Melissa,

Sometimes I wish I could just run away. Not like I did when I was a kid: an overflowing suitcase and lots of noise so everyone knew I was leaving and would be sure to come get me. No. Something quiet. Something stealthy. Something final.

I want to take the two people I love more than anything in this world, pack them into the car, and just drive away. Leave my mortgage, and my car payments. Fuck the bank. Leave all my things that I’ve collected over the years that have never really brought my happiness anyway. Leave my friends, leave my family, just leave it all behind. I want to show up in some new city — somewhere plain and simple — with a new name and absolutely no responsibility to anything except the two people in this world that I give it to freely and wholeheartedly.

Guilt gets me though. I could never go through with it. There’s be one person I’d keep in touch with, one soul I’d reach out to just so they I was okay. And that would be the start of it. Then I’d realize all of the commitments I was leaving behind and how many people would be let down by it, and I’d back out.

And I wonder: even if I did pull it off. Make a clean break. Never looked back. What would happen after I finally got there, settled my self in, made a life for my family and I? Would I find myself 5 years later in new surroundings, with new friends, a new job, and new faces, and the same need for escape from it all?

Love Always,
Daniel

Photo Studio Tonight!

I’ve got my home photo studio setup for a 7:30 to 9:30 session tonight. But since it’s already set up, if you’d like to come play too, why not? Any time before 7:30 of after 9:30 will work just fine. Just bring yourself and whatever else you’d like and we’ll see what we can do.

Drop me a line.

The Autumn Test

Everyone else did, so I took the stupid Autumn Test. Here are my results:

You are a dynamic, vibrant person. You aren’t afraid to pursue your passions.

When you are happiest, you are calm. You appreciate tradition and family. You enjoy feeling cozy.

You embrace change. You love change. You see change as a rebirth.

You find hard work to be the most comforting thing in the world. You like the feeling of accomplishing something.

Your ideal day is active and full. You like to keep busy with your favorite things, and you appreciate a routine.

You tend to live in the moment. You enjoy whatever is going on, and you don’t obsess over the past or future.

With the exception of the last line, I guess it suits me to an extent. But I do obsess regularly over the past and the future to the point that it becomes a real problem from time to time.

Where’s Jim?!

I’m about 15 minutes away from heading out to the Myschievia Work Weekend.

So, this weekend you may be wondering, Where’s Jim!?

I threw together a little something to answer just that question. It uses a portable GPS receiver and the mobile network to upload my location on this planet and display it so you can see where I am. In most cases the GPS is working fine and it’s accurate to about 30 feet. Sometimes, the GPS device hiccups and it resorts to cell tower based position, which is only accurate to about 1000 feet. Other times I have no mobile coverage so it doesn’t upload my location at all. With the current version, you won’t know which method was used. You’ll only see the location and the time that it was uploaded at.

Check it out. If you think it’s fun, useful, or sexy in a stalker-ish way let me know and, when I get back, I’ll made it better, nicer looking, and filled with more features.

Send lots of text/email love while I’m away.

a flava pick me up

Or, if you prefer, the non-live non-acoustic version.

I had only 4 hours of sleep and now have a pounding headache.

I have to leave right after work today for a Myschievia Work Weekend. I’m not ready.

But, it’s a DITL day, and I feel alright.

me, right now

Meme: Take a picture of yourself right now. Don’t change your clothes. Don’t fix your hair. Just take a picture. Post that picture with no editing. Post these instructions with your picture.

me, right now

Up early, unshowered, started work too soon, messy desk filled with computer crap behind me on one side. Messy shelving filled with camera gear behind me on the other side. This is me.

containment issues

Yes, it’s that time again. That time where I bitch about my web presence and how it annoys me.

I want this website to die. I should elaborate “this website” since I have no idea where you’re reading this from. I want revjim.net to die.

The name is nice. I’ve had it forever. It ties my past with my present even if it often gets confused with the singer of the Reverend Horton Heat or some character in a TV Show, Taxi, which I’ve never seen. I guess I just want the content to die.

No. That isn’t it. There is some really good content here. There is also some real crap that I’d like to keep for historical purposes but, that I don’t really have any desire to showcase. So I guess I want the content to live, I just want the container to die.

Yeah. That’s it. I want the container to die. I want all of the content to be spread out and sorted and placed into nice neat little stacks.

I’m well on my way to building that first stack: Photography. I’ve got my photoblog, Arranging Light, and I’ve got my professional site, DJamesPhoto.com, should I ever choose to use it for anything useful.

There are other buckets of Daniel I’d like to have.

1) Photos (as mentioned above)
2) Friends: things only my friends will care about. Memes and surveys, party announcements, etc. The social side of an online presence.
3) Technical Matters: I’ve really slacked here lately, with so many other things going on. I want to write about programming, and software, and gadgets, and mobile technology, and all of these things. You know, just like everyone else. I want to do so with my name on it proudly so that, in looking for a job, I could point someone there.
4) Life, Love, Art: I want to write poetry, record songs, share photos, and talk about my troubles and joys as a 30-something male. I want to talk about fatherhood and married life. I want to provide insight into my own life in a touching way that is meaningful to others, and maybe meet some new people through that.

#1 is cared for.

#2 is difficult because there are so many social sites and I have friends scattered amongst them all. I’m inclined to either just use LiveJournal, just use Facebook, or have my own website that syndicates in full to these websites.

#3 is simple enough. Make a website. If you build it they will come. This is complicated, however, by the fact that the majority of my existing work in this category is buried somewhere in the cruft of revjim.net. At one point in the past I moved everything from LiveJournal into revjim.net and that was a mistake. If I could undo that, I’d be headed in the right direction.

#4 is simple enough too. Make a website. If you build it they will come. The tough part is deciding where to make it. Should it part of revjim.net or should it be it’s own thing. It makes the most sense to put it all out on the line in one place (maybe with different categories). But, at the same time, do I really want a prospective employer reading about diaper changes, nudity with wreckless abandon, and sappy poetry about the shadow of a tree in the moonlight?

I know. I’ve been here before. But, if you have any thoughts, I’d love to hear them. Even you, Justin, when you say “Just Write”.