Comments on: divorce, death, and the afterlife http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/ because a Reverend can't be wrong. Tue, 25 May 2010 11:24:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: day one? – revjim.net http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/comment-page-1/#comment-142195 day one? – revjim.net Wed, 08 Apr 2009 11:17:39 +0000 http://revjim.net/?p=12002#comment-142195 [...] leaving is bittersweet. As I said (in divorce, death, and the afterlife) getting a fresh start is something I'm looking forward too. The sadness, however, comes from a few [...] [...] leaving is bittersweet. As I said (in divorce, death, and the afterlife) getting a fresh start is something I'm looking forward too. The sadness, however, comes from a few [...]

]]> By: Pam http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/comment-page-1/#comment-143476 Pam Sat, 28 Mar 2009 08:37:53 +0000 http://revjim.net/?p=12002#comment-143476 *hugs* You do have a lot going for you. I'm sorry that it came to that for your marriage, and the death of a marriage is as significant an event as the death of a person. So I sympathize with your loss. But you're a great guy, and you have that beautiful girl to raise, so I know you'll make it! *hugs* You do have a lot going for you. I'm sorry that it came to that for your marriage, and the death of a marriage is as significant an event as the death of a person. So I sympathize with your loss. But you're a great guy, and you have that beautiful girl to raise, so I know you'll make it!

]]> By: Pam http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/comment-page-1/#comment-142146 Pam Sat, 28 Mar 2009 03:37:53 +0000 http://revjim.net/?p=12002#comment-142146 *hugs* You do have a lot going for you. I'm sorry that it came to that for your marriage, and the death of a marriage is as significant an event as the death of a person. So I sympathize with your loss. But you're a great guy, and you have that beautiful girl to raise, so I know you'll make it! *hugs* You do have a lot going for you. I'm sorry that it came to that for your marriage, and the death of a marriage is as significant an event as the death of a person. So I sympathize with your loss. But you're a great guy, and you have that beautiful girl to raise, so I know you'll make it!

]]> By: Jim Reverend http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/comment-page-1/#comment-142127 Jim Reverend Wed, 25 Mar 2009 14:39:34 +0000 http://revjim.net/?p=12002#comment-142127 I agree. At the same time, I think that, as part of the commitment of<br>marriage itself, it's important that one of you keeps on trying to fix<br>things even if the other one isn't. Giving up just because the other<br>person isn't trying is not the true meaning of "commitment" or<br>"unconditional". However, if one of you gives up, and you make a<br>determined effort to change their mind and they still insist on giving<br>up... at some point you have to give up too.<br><br>Thank you for your support. There will be so many new adventures.<br><br>I actually got out and took some photographs the other day. If I can<br>manage to find another break, you might actually get to see them. :) I agree. At the same time, I think that, as part of the commitment of
marriage itself, it's important that one of you keeps on trying to fix
things even if the other one isn't. Giving up just because the other
person isn't trying is not the true meaning of "commitment" or
"unconditional". However, if one of you gives up, and you make a
determined effort to change their mind and they still insist on giving
up… at some point you have to give up too.

Thank you for your support. There will be so many new adventures.

I actually got out and took some photographs the other day. If I can
manage to find another break, you might actually get to see them. :)

]]> By: Ian http://revjim.net/2009/03/25/divorce-death-and-the-afterlife/comment-page-1/#comment-142126 Ian Wed, 25 Mar 2009 13:43:32 +0000 http://revjim.net/?p=12002#comment-142126 It's takes two to make any marriage work and if the desire is only held by one it's a waste for you both. Life is to precious to hang around wasting time on something that's broken, and which at least one of you doesn't want to fix.<br><br>Love the positive attitude, and look forward to hearing of your new adventures :) It's takes two to make any marriage work and if the desire is only held by one it's a waste for you both. Life is to precious to hang around wasting time on something that's broken, and which at least one of you doesn't want to fix.

Love the positive attitude, and look forward to hearing of your new adventures :)

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